We don’t get what we expect. We have no control over what is presented to us in life. The universe is a wild card, yet we go into each day with expectations. In truth, what happens is different than what we anticipated. What we do with the twists presented each day has a lot to do with how effective we will be and our learning potential.
Ask yourself 5 questions. What was I expecting to happen? What actually happened (what are the facts)? How did it come to pass (did we assume it or imagine it)? What do I want to create? What do I want to start, stop, and continue?
Turn this into a system. If things don’t go the way we intended, create a system to learn again and again from.Treat the symptoms and not what is lying beneath the surface. Reposition your intentions towards an outcome. We are not talking about problem solving. Structure the situation to advance and proceed.